Introvert-A Strengthening silence: Hear me

Vaishnavi Dixit
4 min readMay 4, 2021

Don’t be fooled by my quiet exterior. It hides a wild mind and passionate heart.

There is a tremendous difference between alone and lonely. You could be lonely in a group of people. I like being alone. I like eating by myself. I go home at night and just watch a movie or hang out with myself. I have to exert myself and really say, oh God, I’ve got to see my friends because I’m too content by myself.

Solitude matters and for some people, it's the air they breathe. I’m very picky with whom I give my energy. I prefer to reserve my time, intensity, and spirit exclusively for those who reflect sincerity. I like getting my energy from dealing with ideas, pictures, memories, and reactions that are inside my head in my inner world. I prefer doing things alone or with one or two people I feel comfortable with. I take time to reflect so that I have a clear idea of what I’ll be doing when I decide to act. Ideas are almost solid things for me.

My Hobbies

Imagining myself in a situation that will literally never exist.

I can’t stand small talk but I can talk about life for hours with that one person close to me.

I enjoy being isolated rather than being in a family get-together.

I prefer observing a person before getting in touch.

I am a very private person you don't ask I don't tell.

I have my own small Little Happy world and I love being around it.

The Surprising Benefits of Being an Introvert

Although there are a lot of misconceptions about introverts — like that they’re antisocial, unfriendly, shy, or lonely. But in many cases, being an introvert can actually be an asset.

While we’re all often flooded with messages that we need to speak up and stand out in order to be successful, introverts can actually achieve even more if they hone their natural strengths

We’re good listeners

Introverts are naturally adept when it comes to actively listening. We tend to be the friend or colleagues you can call on when you’re upset or you have good news to share. We’re going to be able to listen and be with you in that, without turning it around and making it a breaking news.

We think before speaking

Because introverts typically feel less comfortable speaking than they do listening, they choose their words wisely. We only speak when we have something to say, so there is a higher chance that we will have an impact on our words.

We make quality friends

We notice things others might not notice because we’re talking and processing out loud. The typical introvert also uses his or her observant nature to read the room. They’re more likely to notice people’s body language and facial expressions, which makes them better at interpersonal communication

We are observant

Since introverts can feel their energy being drained by being around other people — as opposed to extroverts, who gain energy from being with other introverts choose their friends wisely. we would rather have a few close, trusted friendships to invest their time and energy in, as opposed to a large network of acquaintances.

compassionate leaders

We can be the best leaders when we channel our natural strengths. For starters, we don’t feel the need to step into the spotlight and take all of the credit for group successes; rather, we are likely to highlight the strengths of our team.

Final Thoughts

When a Introvert needs space that means that maybe I am feeling down and chances are that I wont’t actually go to you for help.In fact I won’t go to anyone for help.You will actually have to check on me .I don’t feel that I should burden others with my problems but if you come to me I might just trust you enough to let you help and yes, we are misunderstood as an arrogant person but that really doesn’t matter to me because being straight forward is what i love and appreciate the most.

Stay true to your own nature. If you like to do things in a slow and steady way, don’t let others make you feel as if you have to race. If you enjoy depth, don’t force yourself to seek breadth

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Vaishnavi Dixit

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